朋友間開始養兒育女，有時聚會，一家大細約出嚟，大家嘻嘻哈哈又一日．上月，大家相約燒野食，發生其中一件絮事，可以同大家分享一下．
場境：燒烤場，10步內有小食亭，大家係到燒緊野食．
角色：細路女，散仔，姊姊
細路女：叔叔，幫我去買野飲．
散仔（諗咗一陣）：叔叔都想飲，不如你都幫叔叔去買（氣氛沉默咗一陣）．
姊姊（見氣氛不對，出嚟解話，對住細路女講）：要人幫應該講唔該，如果唔係，就好無禮貌，姊姊同你去買野飲．
事後，細路女當然得到想要的飲品．
散仔唔係因為佢叫我做叔叔唔幫佢（叫哥哥可能有ｄ機會，哈哈！），亦都唔係因為佢無講唔該，而係散仔覺得一個十歳的細路女，有能力自己去買飲品，唔需要散仔去幫，幫佢對佢無好處．
近來有網友希望可以和博客一同睇樓．散仔唔知其他博客點答覆，但散仔一定唔會答應，道理同處理細路女個case一樣．
有新觀點，有疑問，可以提出來，一同思考，一同分享．
睇樓是一項接近零成本的投資活動，想投資又拖拖拉拉，散仔又點會出手幫．
如果你唔想獨立思考，散仔勸你唔好睇散仔筆記，驚會害咗你．
3 則留言:
After I dismissed my domestic helper last year, I asked my 8 year old boy to help sweeping the floor, cleaning the chairs and dumping the garbage bag every now and then.
He said these tasks should be carried out by servants, not him.
I stared at him and said:
"Either you do it, or you won't be served dinner to-night! This is my order."
In Hong Kong, most students were used to asking their teachers for "model answers" and tips before exams.
如何敎導兒女成長,散仔俾唔到任何意見.
但是,如果想成為一位投資者,獨立思考是基本條件.
發佈留言